In Your Anger, Do Not Sin
In Your Anger, Do Not Sin
Aug 04Yesterday we discussed why it was important to teach your child to communicate emotions. We touched on the fact that many times we allow our children to act out in frustration or anger because we are just to tired to deal with the behavior yet again. This is not a good behavior pattern to allow. Anger is a very destructive emotion if not dealt with or communicated properly. An adult who does not know how to appropriately manage their anger will have a difficult time both in marriage and holding a job.
We must teach our children to properly communicate anger. Every one of us is going to feel frustrated and angry. This is why the Bible tells us, “In your anger, do not sin.” When our children are exhibiting angry behaviors we must take the time to talk them through it. The smartest time to do this may be after the fact depending on the age of the child.
We must also teach them how to communicate, by example. We each need to ask ourselves, what do my children see when I am angry? Are we able to process and talk through things when we are upset or do we take out our anger on those around us? Remember we must teach communication intentionally and one of the biggest ways children learn is by observing those closest to them.
